The application before the court, issued on 2 May 2023, concerns one child, A, a boy born in April 2020, so he is just 3 years old. He is the only child of the applicant (“the father”), and the respondent (“the mother”). The application is brought under the 1980 Hague Convention On The Civil Aspects Of International Child Abduction (“the 1980 Hague Convention”) as incorporated by Schedule 1 of the Child Abduction and Custody Act 1985.

The father seeks the summary return of A to Australia. The mother opposes the application, and asserts:

It is not disputed that the father has rights of custody, and that he was exercising them at the material times.

For the purposes of determining this application, I have:

The uncontested facts are these.

The father is Australian by birth, and is now 31 years old. The mother is British, and is 30. The mother travelled to Australia in 2017 (aged 24) to “broaden my horizons”. She has an aunt, uncle and cousins in Western Australia and she initially stayed with a cousin.

The parties met in Western Australia 2018, and formed a relationship; the mother moved into the father’s home in about October 2018. They have never married. In 2019, the mother applied for permanent Australian residence, and this was temporarily granted on 3 April 2021; it was fully granted in March 2022. A was born in 2020; he is an Australian citizen.

In the first 20 months or so, the mother was dedicated to looking after A full-time, while the father worked in a small business; his case is that he worked flexibly, so as to ensure that he was at home with A in the evenings. It appears (from recordings in the notes of the results of the Edinburgh Post Natal Depression Scale) that the mother suffered a degree of post-natal depression for which she was advised to seek medical attention. She did not. The mother then took some part-time work (when A was about 20 months old), working 5.30pm-11.00pm three evenings per week. It is agreed that when the mother worked the father looked after A. The parents had a social life, though the extent to which the mother had her own friends (through mother’s groups and otherwise) is disputed.

The father has a large extended family who live in the area of the parents’ home in Western Australia. It is reasonably clear that one of the sources of the mother’s apparent unhappiness in Australia was her relationship with the paternal grandparents. The mother has an aunt and uncle, and cousins, in Perth, Western Australia; the mother’s father (A’s maternal grandfather) lives in Kent, England.

In 2022, the parties purchased a home together some 15 or so miles from their previous home; they moved in on 14 April. The property is registered only in the father’s name, although the mother contributed financially to it; there is a dispute about the reason for this sole registration – the mother suggesting that it is evidence of the father’s controlling behaviour and financial abuse of her, the father ascribing this to the fact that when the paperwork was being completed the mother did not yet have her Australian permanent residency, and this was an impediment to co-ownership.

Less than one week after they had moved into the new property, on 20 April 2022, the mother’s mother (A’s maternal grandmother), died suddenly at her home in Wales. The mother and father hastened to obtain a passport for A, and then travelled together with A to the UK on 27 April 2022 to attend the funeral and for the mother to deal with all other associated arrangements; return flights were booked for the three of them for 25 May 2022.

On or about 22 May 2022, the mother informed the father that she wished to end the relationship; the father accepts that the couple had been “going through a bad patch” prior to the visit to England. On 25 May, the father returned to Australia alone. It was agreed between the parents that the mother would stay a while longer; they appear to have verbally agreed that the mother and A would return to Australia on about 15 June 2022.

The mother did not return. At the end of January 2023, the mother informed the father that she did not intend to return to Australia.

In the period between May 2022 and January 2023, the parents were in regular contact with each other. I have seen a number of communications passing between them, some of which are relevant to the issues in the case, including determination of the primary issue of habitual residence:

Once the mother had announced her intention not to return, the father initiated these proceedings. The father has also made an application to the Family Court of Western Australia in relation to A, seeking equal shared care with the mother. That application has been issued and listed for a directions hearing on Monday 18th September 2023 at 10.00am at the Perth Registry.

In the period since May 2022, the mother initially lived with her father (maternal grandfather) in Kent. She then moved to Wales where she remained until September 2022. From then until April 2023 the mother was back in Kent. On around 23rd April 2023 the mother moved back with A to live in her late mother’s property in Wales. Wherever the mother has stayed in the UK, she has enrolled A into nursery. The mother describes very fully how happy she is living in Wales, and how settled she now feels.

The mother had told the father in December 2022 that she intends to live with her friend (L) when she returns to Australia and indeed, L has collected some of the mother’s belongings from the father in apparent fulfilment of that plan. L has filed a letter (exhibited to the mother’s statement) in which she indicates that she will not be able to offer the mother accommodation. The father has exhibited messages from the mother’s aunt and cousin both offering accommodation for the mother on her return; the mother has explained why this would not be suitable.

The father has a new partner. There is a suggestion in the statements filed for this hearing that the mother has ‘started seeing someone’ in Wales, but the mother denied this.

The father has had indirect contact with A over the last 16 months. There is some issue (on both sides) about whether this contact has been successful for A, and/or whether it has been misused by the parents to communicate with one another.

I address the mother’s mental health more fully below. The mother’s medical records show a number of contacts with the medical services while she was in Australia, principally in relation to A. There are no significant references to domestic abuse or mental ill-health. It is nonetheless the case that when A was taken to hospital for emergency treatment on more than one occasion, he was accompanied by both of his parents who were both seen to be “upset and concerned for A’s wellbeing”. I mention this because the mother claims that the father played little if any active role in A’s life. I also note that in March 2022, when the mother took A to hospital having fallen off a toy, it was said that “[Mother] misses her family – they are in England”.

As I mention further below, the mother has seen a counsellor for therapeutic sessions in the early part of this year to address significant problems with concentration, memory, sleep, and day to day functioning. The mother has consulted with her GP in the last few weeks asserting that she was suffering from anxiety, and flashbacks from her abusive relationship with the father. Last week the mother sought urgent mental health crisis intervention having attended the Accident and Emergency Department of her local hospital.

It transpires that the mother has obtained a British passport for A. The mother had previously asked the father if she could obtain such a passport, and the father had declined. It appears that the mother had gone ahead and obtained this unilaterally.

Article 3 of the Hague Convention reads as follows:

Article 12 provides:

Counsel agree on the applicable law in this case, and I have been referred to the well-worn checklist which appears in the judgment of Hayden J in Re B (A minor)(Habitual Residence) [2016] EWHC 2174 at [17] and [18] (Footnote: ¹ ) . It reads more or less as follows:

Hayden J went on ([18]) to emphasise that the child is at the centre of the exercise when evaluating his or her habitual residence. This will involve a real and detailed consideration of (inter alia): the child's day to day life and experiences; family environment; interests and hobbies; friends etc. and an appreciation of which adults are most important to the child.

Subsequent caselaw has cautioned against an undue reliance on the shorthand of “sufficient degree of integration” in the summary: see Re A (A Child) (Habitual Residence: 1996 Hague Child Protection Convention) [2023] EWCA Civ 659 in which Moylan LJ stated:

I now turn to the facts of this case and summarise the parents’ arguments.

The father points to the relatively short time between A’s arrival and the date of the retention; A’s lack of stability given his moves between Kent and Wales in the relevant period; that the mother was, throughout the whole of the period in question, expressly avowing an intention to return (albeit reluctantly) to Australia, and given his age his integration is more likely to be linked to that of his mother. Interestingly, in her communications with the father more than once she refers to returning “home” to Australia which may have indicated where subconsciously her roots lay (see above).

The mother contends that at some point after his arrival in England and/or Wales he sufficiently integrated into life here, as did she, as to warrant a finding that he had become habitually resident in England and/or Wales. She points to the fact that she is now living in the maternal grandmother’s former family home – not a point which, in my judgment, helps her as she was of course living in Kent as at January 2023; she points to A having been enrolled in nursery, that he has many friends close to his home(s), and attends clubs and activities. She speaks of him being happy when in England (close to his maternal grandfather) and/or Wales (where he was for a period in 2022, and where he is now).

Having reviewed the material and taken account of the arguments, in my judgment, at the time of the retention, A remained habitually resident in Australia. I say so for the following reasons, in combination:

Article 13(b) of the Hague convention provides that the court is not bound to order a return of the child if the person who opposes the return establishes that:

The law in this area is well-known. The legal principles engaged on an application under the 1980 Hague Convention where Article 13(b) is raised are well-established. They were extensively discussed in Re A (Children) (Abduction: Article 13b) [2021] EWCA Civ 939, (“Re A”). In his judgment in that case Moylan LJ drew from the Supreme Court decisions of In re E (Children) (Abduction Custody Appeal) [2011] UKSC 27, [2012] 1 AC 144 (“Re E”) and Re S (Abduction: Article 13(b) Defence) [2012] 2 AC 257 (“ Re S ”). I have also found particularly useful the judgment of Baker LJ in Re IG (Child Abduction: Habitual Residence: Article 13(b)) [2021] EWCA Civ 1123, and Moylan LJ in Re C (Article 13(b)) [2021] EWCA Civ 1354 (“ Re C ”).

The following principles emerge from these authorities, relevant to the 1980 Hague application:

Moylan LJ in Re C [2021] (citation above) emphasised that the risk to the child must be a future risk (§49-50). He cited from the Good Practice Guide to emphasise that:

Thus, an assessment needs to be made of the

I am clear that my role is not to engage in a fact-finding exercise, but as Moylan LJ went on to observe:

In his judgment, Moylan LJ took the opportunity to emphasise the importance of adherence to Practice Guidance: Case Management and Mediation of International Child Abduction Proceedings  issued by Sir James Munby P on 13 March 2018, and to the point that protective measures include not only those offered by the left-behind parent but also those available ordinarily in the state of habitual residence and their adequacy and effectiveness (§60).

I also have regard, as I must to the definition of domestic abuse contained in section 1(3) of the Domestic Abuse Act 2021 and PD12J FPR 2010,

It is relevant, in a case in which the mother has raised both domestic abuse and mental health issues, that I look at the allegations cumulatively and not independent of each other. In In re B (Children) [2022] 3 WLR 1315, Moylan LJ said:

Neither counsel referenced the Court of Appeal decision in Re S (a child) (abduction: article 13(b): mental health) [2023] EWCA Civ 208 , but I found it useful. This case concerned a mother with chronic mental health problems with acute, severe, episodes; she too suffered from ADHD. This was a case in which the father sought the return of a child to Australia, and in that case too, expert evidence was given by Dr. Ratnam. Moylan LJ (allowing the appeal and overturning the decision at first-instance to return) recited the evidence of Dr Ratnam (describing the mother’s mental ill-health) from [30] – [52]. While acknowledging that every case is different, and each must be determined on its own facts, it has been useful to have regard to Re S to provide a benchmark for the decision which I am required to make; while there are inevitably differences, there are also a number of striking similarities between the situation of this mother and the situation of the mother in Re S .

The mother presents her case on two alternative (but in some senses linked) bases:

Domestic abuse: The mother asserts that the father was abusive to her throughout their relationship in multiple ways.

She told Dr Ratnam that the physical abuse in the relationship started “very early” with aggression to inanimate objects and “he hit me a couple of times” including hitting her in the chest when she was pregnant, which made her fall off the bed. She alleges that he threw food at her on at least one occasion; on other occasions he was physically violent to her and on another occasion had sexual intercourse with her without her consent. The mother describes the father throwing things at her and the wall in temper, and describes occasions when he has punched the wall. She says that she attempted to end the relationship on a number of occasions, but failed to do so. She complains that she became socially isolated while living in Australia, because of the father’s controlling behaviour, and in the end effectively had only one friend (L). She asserts that the father “was extremely controlling, aggressive and intimidating” and alleges that the father abused alcohol and drugs. The mother says that she “struggled” after January 2019 (before she conceived A) and that the relationship deteriorated during the pregnancy. She said that after A’s birth “life became even harder. I now had a young child to care for and [the father] was no help at all …. He refused to help … He was never there to support me or [A].” The mother alleges that the father :

The mother asserts that she has been the victim of financial abuse throughout the relationship; most notably she complains that she gave $70,000AUSD to the father for the purchase of the new home, and $30,000AUSD for the purchase of a new car, both of which were in the end registered only in his name. She says that she “felt manipulated and pressured into this situation”, and does not accept the father’s explanation for why she has acquired no legal title to either property.

The mother contends that the father behaved uncaringly and callously when in Wales following the death of the maternal grandmother, plundering the house for items to sell, over the head of the mother herself who was so riven with grief that she felt powerless to stop him. She contends that he showed very little empathy and was more interested in drinking and clubbing. The mother’s uncle and cousin from Australia flew over, and assisted the father to clear the maternal grandmother’s house. She says that she has lost her relationship with her relatives in Australia “who behaved atrociously at the time of my mother’s death in April 2022”.

The exchange of messages exhibited to the mother’s statement interestingly includes a number of allegations against the father including: “[y]ou’ve treated me so badly for so long I started not to care and now you’re still trying to force me to do what you want”; “[y]ou have emotionally abused me, been physically abusive. You’ve never cared for [A] you’ve always left everything to me. All you care about is money [emoji]. You constantly get angry with him and ignore him you don’t spend your days in and out with him teaching him playing with him, nurturing him.” The father, in his short replies to the mother, notably does not take issue with much of what the mother has written. In late-August, she says this (an exchange which, in my view, in large measure summarises the essence of this case):

The mother explains the absence of contemporaneous corroboration of abuse saying that she “disclosed some of the difficulties I have been having with [the father] and his family to [A]’s health nurse, but I was not completely open with her as I was worried about things coming back to [the father]. She was encouraging me to tell her and to seek treatment”.

In relation to the text messages which I set out earlier in this judgment, the mother says this:

Ms Chokowry argues that these allegations cannot confidently be discounted and in the circumstances I should take them at their highest and consider whether the protective measures would be sufficient to meet and/or mitigate them.

It is the mother’s case that protective measures would not be effective to protect her from a continuation or recurrence of the domestic abuse. She adds that her mental health issues would be likely to impact on her ability to seek the kinds of help, including court orders, which the father has indicated would be available to her.

Mental state: Depression: The mother invites the court to conclude that it would expose A to a grave risk of psychological harm if he were to be returned to Australia without her; and that if the mother accompanied him to Australia (which would be the likely outcome) there is a grave risk that, in view of the likely deterioration of the mother’s mental health, A would be exposed to psychological harm, or be otherwise placed in an intolerable situation. In her witness statement she refers to being “terrified” of returning to Australia. She describes how the thought of returning gives her “crippling anxiety and panic attacks” and wonders how she would be “able to do it”.

Aside from her prepared witness statement in which she of course elaborates on this, the mother has exhibited exchanges over social media with the father which include some revealing insights into the mother’s mental well-being and perspective on her return. One of them in August 2022 (which is illustrative of others) reads:

The mother consulted a counsellor between January and March 2023. The counsellor has filed a short statement:

On 29 June 2023, Russell J gave the mother leave to obtain a report from Dr Sumi Ratnam, a consultant psychiatrist in forensic psychiatry. Dr Ratnam saw the mother on two occasions (6 and 10 July) and read the mother’s medical records; she prepared one report dated 24 July 2023.

Dr Ratnam described the mother’s early history; she referenced an abusive experience when she was in her teens (which led to the imprisonment of her abuser) which the mother herself felt “probably” adversely affected her mental health. She has a history of depression; on two occasions – when she was 14 years old [2007] (“genuinely didn’t want to be alive”) and 17 years old [2010] – she took an overdose. She reported feeling suicidal again when she was 21 [2014]. She was on regular and varied anti-depressant, beta-blocker, and associated medication (Escitalopram, Diazepam, Temazepam, Fluoxetine, Amitriptyline, Propranolol) from 2010 to 2018. She used alcohol in an unhealthy way to self-medicate; it is apparent that before the mother travelled to Australia in 2018, she was suffering fairly constantly from depression and anxiety, and general mental ill-health. The mother has a history of suffering from panic attacks (these are recorded in her notes as occurring in 2010, 2011, 2014, 2015, 2016, 2017 and 2018).

The mother is recorded as having suffered “moderate” post-natal depression in Australia, but notably, there is little evidence of her experiencing other mental ill-health while in Australia. The mother explains that she did not want to open up to professionals there. It is worth noting that in her communication to the father on 31 January 2023, she references how she was “struggling” in Australia (§14(vii) above: “I have realised how bad I have been struggling the past few years for various reasons”); it is reasonable to infer from the context in which she says this that he knows to what she is referring.

Only in October 2022 did the mother once again consult medical professionals in the UK about her mental health; Dr Ratnam records that as at 28 October 2022, the mother had a PHQ9 (Footnote: ² ) score 23 out of 27 (severe depression), and a GAD-7 (Footnote: ³ ) score 20 out of 21 (severe anxiety). In January 2023, she was reported to be suffering “multiple panic attacks daily”. On 12 June 2023, the GP record reads:

In interview with Dr. Ratnam, the mother reported feelings of depression. The mother told Dr Ratnam that when she is depressed she does not “do anything”, and “just hide[s] away from the world”, she experiences reduced appetite but if her friends give her food, “she binges”. Of the other symptoms of depression, the mother reported reduced sleep, reduced concentration and negative thoughts, diarrhoea and vomiting and weight loss. Dr Ratnam described the mother’s symptoms of anxiety as including “palpitations, shortness of breath, sweating”, “constantly shaking and trembling”. She has had multiple panic attacks and “has consumed alcohol if they have occurred in the evening”. Dr Ratnam reported that the mother was currently “unable to sleep” but does not feel tired stating “feel like I’m going and going”. Her mood remains low, particularly since having recently returned to court and her concentration is poor. The mother told Dr Ratnam, perhaps ominously, “if I didn’t have him (A), I would not be here right now”.

The mother is currently prescribed Sertraline 200mg and Diazepam 2mg three times a day, although she admitted that she was “taking more than this… at least four tablets per day”. She also takes Zopiclone (hypnotic) which she receives from a friend at dose of 7.5mg but has run out.

Dr Ratnam’s opinion is that the mother “fulfils the criteria for a diagnosis of depression” and was depressed (in oral evidence this was: “severely depressed”) at the time of the interview. Her symptoms of depression have included low mood, reduced energy, withdrawal from interpersonal interaction, altered appetite, reduced sleep, reduced concentration and negative thoughts. Dr Ratnam was of the view that the death of the maternal grandmother in April 2022 was an “aetiological factor for the current episode of mental illness” and that her symptoms have been “exacerbated by the current proceedings”. Dr Ratnam was concerned about the mother’s current use of Diazepam given that she appears to be using more than prescribed: “although not dependent, there is a risk of her developing dependency”. She made this important point:

Additionally, Dr Ratnam expressed concern that the mother “has been consuming alcohol as a coping strategy. It is not uncommon for individuals to consume alcohol to manage their mental health but alcohol worsens mood and anxiety”. The mother was reluctant to take medication for ADHD (see below) and this was an additional poor prognostic factor.

Dr Ratnam identified strong signs that the mother suffers from ADHD; this is relevant because: “ADHD is often associated with anxiety particularly when untreated”. Dr Ratnam felt that the mother should be assessed for this.

Dr Ratnam was concerned about the impact of the mother’s mental illness on A:

Dr Ratnam gave brief oral evidence and was questioned by counsel. Dr Ratnam accepted that the mother’s mental state has been (objectively viewed) worse since she has been back in England, likely caused by a combination of her mother’s death (and her unresolved guilt about not seeing her before her death), and the current proceedings. Dr Ratnam told me that the mother was “incredibly distressed” in interview, “severely anxious” and “severely depressed”; her mental health was “significantly impacted”. She felt that even since October 2022 (note the high PHQ and GAD scores recorded then: see §58 above), her mental health has significantly deteriorated.

Dr Ratnam told me that the mother’s condition could be treated in Australia: it has very good mental health services, both in the private sector and the public sector, and “the Australian experts regularly present at conferences”. But she felt that the psychiatric resources would be more likely available in the “big cities” and not in the rural locations. The father currently lives in a small township more than 100 miles from Perth. Dr Ratnam was reasonably emphatic that if the mother were to return, it would be important to identify who would be caring for her, and what the service would be. She told Ms Chokowry that: “it would be really important to clarify services… who she would have access to, and what would be the pathways of care”. This was important because the mother’s mental health was described as:

When asked by Ms Chokowry what would happen if the mother’s mental health was to deteriorate (and given that she is already on maximum medication), she replied:

Domestic abuse: The father does not dispute that the allegations of abuse are serious. He denies however that he has behaved as alleged.

The father denies that he has been abusive to the mother, and challenges her account of her isolated life in Australia. He specifically denies drinking alcohol to excess; he asserts that he does not take drugs. He offers to be tested for both in the context of the Australian court proceedings when determining the long-term arrangements for A after his return. He denies the mothers accusations of physical and sexual abuse and claims that he “never laid a hand on” the mother, nor has he thrown things at her as she alleges. He denies calling her names, and being disparaging about her to other people as she has claimed. He accepts that they have argued with raised voices. He denies that he has ever smacked A, but accuses the mother of having done so, with such force as to leave a handprint; he exhibits to his statement a WhatsApp message which references this. The father accepts that on at least two occasions they discussed ending their relationship; her main upset was over the involvement of the paternal family in A’s life.

The father disputes the mothers account of financial control, pointing out that the property which they purchased together could not be registered in their joint names because the mother's residency application had not yet been granted (the mother, I may add, disputes this reason). The father accepts that the mother has made a meaningful contribution to the cost of the property. He also accepts that she contributed to the purchase of the car. The father points out that these are matters to be sorted out between them once the mother returns to Australia. The father further denies that he callously set about selling items from the maternal grandmother’s home after her death; he asserts that it was the mother who organized a garage sale at her mother’s property which went on for about five days in respect of which he helped. He says that he helped to clean the property which had not been well looked after. He denies taking any items to try and sell them without the mother’s knowledge or consent: “she was fully aware of everything that was sold and she kept all of the proceeds for herself”.

The father fairly points to the absence of corroboration of the mother’s account of domestic abuse from the limited Australian records available. There are no records from the police or social services. He points to the contemporaneous medical records which give very little indication of the case which she now presents. On the contrary, he points to an entry which refers to the mother “getting a bit more help from dad” (albeit that “football season has started and it is a bit harder now”). In the same entry (and contrary to the mother’s current case) it is said that “[the mother] has supportive friends.” Elsewhere in the notes it is recorded that the father is “supportive when home”. A recurrent claim within the notes is that the mother is “stressed with in laws” (i.e. the father’s parents). A later entry refers to “[the mother] managing so well but with stress from husband and extended family; has seen GP and does talk with [the father]; strategies given”. In October 2020, the entry reads “good support from husband.; Family functioning and wellbeing: Discussed: no concerns; Caregiver mental health: Discussed: no concerns”.

In the following year, the mother saw the paediatrician who referred to the mother receiving “some support from partner – not much but [mother] says it is better”. Notably in the same session, the mother is reported to be missing her family in England. It was further recorded that A “[e]njoys books with mum & dad.” Notably, “Family domestic violence: Discussed: no concerns”.

The father invites me to attach significance to the fact that these allegations only appeared for the first time when the mother is in this country, and there is a purpose to be served by her making these allegations. He points to the fact that the mother has, more than once, invited him (and his partner) to stay with her in Wales; he points to the fact that the mother contemplates him having ready access to A (“I know eventually you’ll want to go away with him [on the return to Australia] but I’ll be a mess if you do it straight away”: August 2022). He pointed out that the mother offered the father the chance for A to spend three months of the year with him and the rest of the year with her when he is in school. He contends that she would surely have made none of these proposals if he had behaved as she now claims.

The father contends that the mother has never expressed the intention to return to live in the UK. He says that the mother had always wanted A to grow up in Australia and had also tried previously to persuade her parents to move to Australia.

Mental State: Depression: The father asserts that he would be able to be supportive of the mother if/when she returns with A, and that her ‘support network’ will grow quickly and organically (as it did in the past) once she is back. He is confident that she would quickly access the mental health services which he has highlighted in his evidence, and has agreed to fund five sessions of CBT to tide her over until she is plugged into the mental health services.

The father relies on the protective measures now set out below, which are principally directed to the allegation of harm based on abuse, but also encompass other practical arrangements, and protection for the mother in relation to looking after her mental health.

The father offers a range of protective measures; these are discussed in the written evidence. Mr Marnham has helpfully distilled them into one document which I reproduce in full as follows:

Additionally, the father points out that:

There is a question over whether the mother would be entitled to funding for litigation in Australia; this is a concern to me, given that I am doubtful that (having seen her in court at this hearing, when she was represented, and having regard to the medical report of Dr Ratnam) she would be able to litigate effectively as a litigant in person given her ADHD and mental health issues.

The father has exhibited a statement from a lawyer in Australia setting out the mechanism for filing with the court the undertakings offered in this country. Additionally, a letter from the Central Authority in Australia, was filed with the court at the start of the hearing, and this confirms:

Domestic abuse: While I make no findings of fact in this respect, I cannot confidently discount that the mother has been the victim of domestic abuse (as defined by section 1(3) of the 2021 Act and PD12J) in her relationship with the father. It is accepted that their relationship was not entirely harmonious, with discussions about separation on one, or more than one, occasion in the past. Without any corroboration of them, it is difficult – without hearing the evidence of the parties – to gauge the reliability of the account given by the mother. I nonetheless take into account what the mother said to the father in her messages to him in the summer of 2022 (see above: “[y]ou have emotionally abused me, been physically abusive. You’ve never cared for [A] you’ve always left everything to me”), and the absence of any rebuttal of her assertions. But I also note her comments of June 2022:

I emphasise that I do not make any findings on the allegations of domestic abuse. However, if the allegations are indeed all true, and if A was to be returned to a situation in which he was unavoidably drawn in to an abusive parental relationship, I am satisfied that this would be likely to present a ‘grave risk’ to his psychological wellbeing. As I have said elsewhere, and I repeat here, no one can now be in any doubt about the deeply damaging impact of domestic abuse on children who are exposed to it (see section 3(2) Domestic Abuse Act 2021). Accordingly, I must consider whether the protective measures offered by the father, coupled with the protections of which the mother may be able to avail herself through the Australian courts, and the supports which may be available from her friends in Australia, can mitigate that risk. In my judgment, the protective measures offered by the father, together with the protective orders which would be available to the mother, diminish the risk sufficiently – providing the mother with adequate independence from the father – as to reduce to a sufficient extent the grave risk of harm to A of exposure to any ongoing domestic abuse.

Mental health. In my discussion of this part of the case, I start by reminding myself of Lord Wilson’s comments in Re S namely that if I were to conclude that, on return, the mother will suffer such anxieties that their effect on her mental health will create a situation that is intolerable for the child, then the child should not be returned. He confirmed that it matters not whether the mother's anxieties will be reasonable or unreasonable. The extent to which there will, objectively, be good cause for the mother to be anxious on return will nevertheless be relevant to the court's assessment of the mother's mental state if the child is returned.

Dr. Ratnam provided careful and thoughtful evidence to the court; she was of considerable assistance. At the conclusion of her evidence, and taking account also all that I had read, I was left in no real doubt that the mother is currently mentally very unwell.

Indeed, I am persuaded on the evidence that she is so unwell that were I to order a return of A to Australia, this would have a significantly debilitating effect on her. Dr Ratnam did not rule out the possibility that the mother’s sense of hopelessness at her situation – if returning to Australia with A – could lead her to inpatient hospitalisation on her return.

In this case, I have been presented with more than the usual anxieties of the returning mother. Far more. This mother has a long history of mental ill-health stretching back twenty years to her early adolescence (and even before that). Her GP records contain a number of entries of referrals for anxiety; she is recorded as having suffered from panic attacks from the ages of 17 to 25; she carries the legacy of an abusive traumatic experience. On two recorded occasions in her adolescence she took an overdose of tablets, which - even if not intended as life-threatening – at the very least are a serious indicator of significant distress. Following the birth of A she is recorded as having suffered “moderate” post-natal depression which for which the mother failed to access treatment. The pattern of her mental health reflects serious downturns coincident with significant stressful life events – the divorce of her parents, the abusive trauma of her teenage years, the failure of a relationship, the death of her mother. Alongside the expected feelings of her current grief, she feels guilt (at not being able to say goodbye) and regret (at not having seen her mother for 4 years). To that list of adverse life events which have triggered a decline in her mental health, it is reasonable to add, in my judgment, a return to Australia at this stage, an outcome of which she says that she is “terrified”.

The mother has been “severely depressed” since at the latest October 2022; there is reason to consider – having read the messages passing between the father and the mother – that her depression long precedes this. By July 2023, when seen by Dr Ratnam, her depression was worse. I accept Dr Ratnam’s view that the mother was “incredibly distressed”, and “severely depressed” in interview; her mental health was “significantly impacted”. It is Dr Ratnam’s view that since October 2022, her mental health has significantly deteriorated as she has lived with the grief of her mother’s death, and the anxieties surrounding a return to Australia have risen.

The mother’s depression has been overlayed by high levels of anxiety, which also affect her functioning. It is Dr Ratnam’s view that the mother’s anxiety may well be aggravated by untreated ADHD.

The recurrent / daily symptoms of her depression and anxiety were described vividly by the mother in her statement, and laid out in the report of Dr Ratnam: they include palpitations; shaking; weight loss, nausea and vomiting; she hides away from the world. Dr Ratnam confirmed that the mother’s anxiety has been amplified very considerably by the fear of having to return to Australia, and what is likely to greet her there. Dr Ratnam told me that “it is likely that a return to Australia at this stage will impact adversely on her mental health and this in turn is likely to further affect her parenting”. That is to say, we can reasonably expect that her condition will get worse.

The mother’s mental state is not being well controlled by medication. The mother is over-medicating, a source of considerable concern to Dr Ratnam; she has, worryingly, been taking other medication provided by a friend, and consuming alcohol as a coping strategy.

While mental ill-health does not inevitably impact on parenting ability, it is obvious that the mother’s mental state has impacted and will impact further on her care of A, particularly if A is returned to Australia. The mother is already conscious of the extent to which her depression and anxiety is making her emotionally unavailable to A; in this case, this is unsurprising given the mother’s account of her lack of sleep, her overmedicating on diazepam, her wish to “hide away”, and her experience of regular panic attacks. I was struck by the descriptions of how she was feeling in her communications with the father in the autumn of 2022, at a time when she was also saying that she would return to Australia (hence they were not self-serving).

I am entirely satisfied that high-quality psychiatric services would be available to the mother were she to return to Australia, and that these would be accessible as public services. Similar (if not identical) medication would plainly be available in Australia. The father references a significant level of mental health support which she could access in Australia, for example Medicare rebates are available following a referral from a GP for up to ten individual and ten group allied mental health services to anyone with an assessed mental disorder.

But I have material reservations about whether the mother would be quickly able to access effective health care; the mother is not currently registered with psychiatric services in Australia. She has no current home in Australia, nor does she have an address from which to register for services. The parents used to live, and the father currently lives, in relatively rural Western Australia, not in a city where Dr Ratnam expected that the relevant mental health services would be found. She has no immediate means of financial support in Australia. I have doubts about the efficacy of the non-specific proposal of the father that the mother could benefit from the state ‘Medicare’ services. I see the risks to the mother’s mental health as very real, and the proposed protective measures insufficiently focused on her actual needs. There are additional question marks over the extent of her social support network in Australia; she has apparently fallen out with her only family there, and I am satisfied that she will not wish to access support from the father’s parents who may well have contributed to problems which the mother experienced when she lived in Australia. Her friendship group in Australia has largely fallen silent recently. The father’s offer of support for CBT or other therapy is very much time-limited, whereas the mother plainly needs some reasonably long-term and intensive help. On the information presented at this hearing, there is a real risk that the mother would fall between the cracks of mental health services.

The mother would also be returning to an unfamiliar environment – now separated from the father, and living alone. Judging by the limited social media ‘conversations’ to which I have been privy, the relationship between them post-separation has been angry and confrontational. It is a concern that the father may not fully understand the mother’s parlous situation; I am not sure that he could be relied on to be sympathetic and understanding. In his second statement, he says “I do not see any reason why the Respondent should be concerned about returning to Australia”.

The court will always scrutinise carefully and critically the assertions of a respondent parent to an application under the 1980 Hague Convention whose case is that a return of the child (i.e., to the country from which they have been abducted) will cause the accompanying parent such distress as to create a grave risk of psychological harm to that child. The respondent in such a case will almost always have a level of anxiety about the prospect of return, for any number of reasons. This case, exceptionally in my own judicial experience, is in a different league.

I have looked at the cumulative (see §40 above) stresses on this mother of a return to Australia, knowing: (a) the extent of her current mental illness; (b) her unusually heightened (clinically assessed) anxieties; (c) her untreated ADHD (which is likely to be aggravating those anxieties); (d) the apparent ineffectiveness (at least in her own mind) of her current medication; (e) the profound uncertainties surrounding her accommodation and means of support in Australia; (f) her lack of family support there (and loss of family support which she has in England and in Wales); (g) the discordant relationship with the father; (h) the prospect of litigating in the Australian courts to obtain protection from abuse and child arrangements for A possibly as a litigant in person; and (i) the fragile state of her emotions. Having regard to those matters in combination, I am left in no real doubt that a return of A to Australia at this point in his life would be likely to have a significant deleterious impact on the mental health of this mother, which would be likely in my judgment to impact on her ability to parent him. In turn, this gives rise to the grave risk that A would be caused psychological harm. Although A is, himself, a strong protective factor against rash action on the part of the mother (she told Dr Ratnam: “if I didn’t have him (A), I would not be here right now”), Dr Ratnam could not rule out that (if she is faced with a return) those passive feelings of hopelessness could escalate, as they did in the past, leading to suicidal ideation. I further assess as ‘grave’ the risk that a return would cause such a deterioration in the mother’s mental state that she would find herself – as Dr Ratnam at least contemplated – hospitalised; this would place A in an ‘intolerable situation’. Although, as Dr Ratnam fairly commented, the mother has shown a reasonable degree of resilience in the past, I am satisfied that her emotional resources are now close to empty.

Dr Ratnam was clear that the mother would need an effective network of professional mental health support to be in place well in advance of a return to give her the best chance of coping with the return; she emphasised the need for “clarity” about this. I find that the measures proposed by the father –indicating in broad and general terms what may be available to the mother – fall short of offering this court that level of clarity and assurance.

For these reasons, I am satisfied that the mother has established an exception to return reflected by Article 13(b) of the 1980 Hague Convention. The risk has “reached such a level of seriousness as to be characterised as 'grave'” ( Re E ). 

Having reached the point in this exercise when I must exercise my ‘discretion’ whether to order a return, I have regard to the speeches in the case of Re M (Abduction: Zimbabwe) [2007] UKHL 55 at §43, as to which I highlight:

I have further considered the judgment of Peter Jackson LJ in Re G (Abduction: Consent/Discretion) [2021] EWCA Civ 139 at §41:

But on the facts of this case, I can do no better than to turn to the speech of Baroness Hale said in Re D (A Child) (Abduction: Custody Rights) [2007] 1 AC 619, at [55]:

The mother has established to my satisfaction that a return of A to Australia at this point with or without his mother would place A at grave risk of psychological harm, or otherwise place him in an intolerable situation. It is therefore clear that I must exercise my discretion to refuse a return. I cannot wait to see if the mother’s depression will ease as her grief, and the impact of her failed relationship, subsides; I cannot wait to assess whether the anxieties will be alleviated by a reduction in conflict with the father. As Moylan LJ pointed out in Re S [2023] at [109]:

However, I should add that I refuse the father’s application with a little hesitation.

The father’s role in A’s life is an extremely important one, but I regret that it is bound to be impacted very significantly by the geographic distance between the parents (or more pertinently between A and his father). I note that indirect contact has not been easy to achieve, perhaps particularly given A’s age and the parties’ difficult relationship, and this needs to be addressed urgently; the onus is on the mother.

I note that the mother had written to the father in September 2022 “I need him and he needs me. Doesn't take away from you, but you and him don't need one another like we do”, and I am concerned by the mother’s comment to her GP (reported to Dr Ratnam) in December 2022, that “she did not want her ex-partner to be part of her son’s life”. I had wondered aloud during the course of submissions whether this is what the case is all about, but Ms Chokowry was emphatic (on specific instructions) that this is not so. Miss Chokowry made clear, again on instructions, that the mother wishes the father to play as full a part in A’s life as possible. I accept the mother’s assurance in this respect (indeed, I could see the mother nodding her confirmation of this assertion while her counsel was making these submissions), which I trust will be repeated in any substantive welfare hearing, and then acted on.

That is my judgment.